So one of the biggest criticisms I have with myself that spans back as long as I can remember is how damn soft I can be. Soft- not as in nice and squishy to hug (because I am nicer as hell to hug it's like hugging a friendly bear) but soft as in I'm somewhat easy to just walk over. And I do generally just let it happen. It's usually not until a few hours after the fact that it really impacts me that that just happened, and then I usually cook up some fantastic phrases I should have used in the moment.
I mean seriously if I could have all of your statements prepared and an hour to study and come up with comparable responses I could win seriously any argument ever. Aside from that my chances are slim.
Also I'd almost like to put a tag on my life that says any interaction you have with me is fair game to be blogged about. Like entering a room with me is equivalent to signing a waiver that "oh shit k, sean can tell the internet about this." Some people would be all about it because they could read some cool interesting shit, but the vast majority of people whom I actually enjoying engaging with probably wouldn't be huge proponents.... And the people I actually spend with take priority soooooo
I received some interesting feedback on my previous blog post. The majority that I got from guys basically said "I consider myself sort of sexist but I do alright with the ladies." And you know what? Fine. I don't demand perfection. But there was one special case from a guy we'll call Jeff. Jeff tells me he absolutely hates feminism (cough women) and totally banged like twelve chicks last night. Well Jeff that's fantastic for you and I hope your chlamydia doesn't get as lonely as you eventually will be.
Aside from Jeff my favorite piece of feedback came in the form of a complaint that I did not bitch about things women do in the dating world, whereas I "made men look like a bunch of retards." I did not realize the Fairness Doctrine applied to my blog, but I'll take the under consideration.
And I mean this is where the waiver thing would come in handy. If you're so confident in your opinions then I legitimately encourage you to express them in a similar way and I absolutely welcome the feedback you will inevitably receive. Please feel free to call me out on anything related to the material in my recent posts and I will address it. I'm also happy to continue responding to your complaints in private, just know that picking apart my opinions in private is somewhat lame when I post them for anyone to read and have no arena to reply, except I guess for future blog posts.
Moving on to story time I went out to a bar tonight for a bit. It was a
Sigh, you know what, it isn't worth the effort. I'll cliffnote it and just say being used as a tool to make someone else jealous is a pretty shitty feeling.
Initially when I cross outed "a nice time" up above, I was going to replace it with "a total waste of a night." But the fact of the matter is I did at least learn some valuable info regarding what type of people I should be investing my time into.
Dude remember when my blog used to be all fluffy and light? I agree being real is much more satisfying.
Cutting this one short. But holy hell writing this helped so damn much.
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